Movies are the playground of human emotions and Couples Retreat is a classic illustration of this. The story cleverly intertwines traditional stereotypes of gender roles with the challenge of characters coming to grips with a more authentic expression of their inner-selves. Especially sexually.
The role of the “guru” and the “expert” are mercilessly lampooned in a Resort setting to die for. As the days pass, isolation and relaxation combined to inspire healing and closure to ill-fitting expectations by spouses and friends alike.
Sure there was the almost obligatory gooey, feel-good ending where all end up together happily ever after but there was more to it than that. There was a strong message that couples can live together for years and not have a clue about each other’s needs and wants.
It was tremendous to watch a movie that explored sex roles in such an open and often confronting way. The message was clear – know your sexual needs and it is up to you to fulfil them.
And to let your partner know, honestly and sensitively.
Blame is a waste of breath.
Here’s to lovin’ and learnin’.
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